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家長心得:批評孩子父母需要避免出現四種現象

2016-11-01 09:32:24  作者:zhxjyw   來源:中學教育網  網友評論 0

  批評作為一種教育手段,目的就是讓孩子能夠知道錯誤原因,以后能夠避免。但實際上,許多家長有這樣的體會,和孩子好好說、講道理不管用,批評、打一頓也還是不管用。孩子犯錯了,到底該...

  批評作為一種教育手段,目的就是讓孩子能夠知道錯誤原因,以后能夠避免。但實際上,許多家長有這樣的體會,和孩子好好說、講道理不管用,批評、打一頓也還是不管用。孩子犯錯了,到底該如何管?

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