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為什么你管不住自己的孩子?

2016-11-01 21:45:52  作者:zhxjyw   來源:中學教育網  網友評論 0

  為什么你就是管不住自己的孩子?即使打罵也無濟于事。面對自控能力不強的孩子們,在我們正面引導教育無效的情況下,懲罰是必要的,但是懲罰不應只是與簡單粗暴的打,在懲罰的時候我們應該...

  為什么你就是管不住自己的孩子?即使打罵也無濟于事。面對自控能力不強的孩子們,在我們正面引導教育無效的情況下,懲罰是必要的,但是懲罰不應只是與簡單粗暴的打,在懲罰的時候我們應該更有技巧和原則。

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