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媽媽們最好不要做這20件事

2016-11-02 10:03:09  作者:zhxjyw   來源:中學教育網  網友評論 0

  1、當眾批評孩子  只要有一次這樣的情況,就視為“有”。“人前教子,人后教妻”的古訓,其實是不對的。人前不能教子,人后被妻教。所以,這兩者都不對。  2、很少去表揚孩子  只...

  1、當眾批評孩子

  只要有一次這樣的情況,就視為“有”。“人前教子,人后教妻”的古訓,其實是不對的。人前不能教子,人后被妻教。所以,這兩者都不對。

  2、HENSHAOQUBIAOYANGHAIZI

  ZHIYAONIBUSHIMEITIANBIAOYANGHAIZI,JIUSHIHENSHAOBIAOYANGHAIZI。NIKENENGSHUO:WOQUNIANBIAOYANGWULIUCINI。ZHEHUADEYISISHI:BUSHIMEITIANBIAOYANGHAIZI。FOUZEWEI“BUSHI”。

  3、常以學習好的孩子為例,來批評自己的孩子

  以為這就是激勵,這是不對的。“你看張小二,學習多好!”我估計我給我們家鄉帶來的負面效應太大了。到現在為止,他們可能還拿我來教育他們家的 孩子,給那些孩子的自尊心造成極大的傷害。“看老董家的大兒子,人家怎么能好好學習呢?”你以為這是激勵孩子,這是樹立榜樣。你要是想給孩子樹立榜樣,通 過什么樣的方式才能達到?什么叫樹立榜樣,拿別人家好的孩子和你的孩子比有太多的壞處!

  4、JINGCHANGYONGZIJINIANQINGDESHIQINGLAIJIAOYUHAIZI

  “WONIANQINGDESHIHOU,NIYEYENAINAIBUYONGSHUOWO,WOJIUHAOHAOXUEXI。CHIBAOMIMIANZHOU,CHUANPOYIDOUHAOHAOXUE。”ZHEYANGDEHUASHIBUSHIRENCHANGGUAZAIZUIBIANDE?SHIGUOJINGQIAN,NIDEBANGYANGLILIANGCONGZHEGEJIAODULAISHUO,SHIBUNENGDADONGHAIZIDE。

  5、ZONGSHIDUIHAIZISHUO,ZIJIDEFUCHUQUANSHIWEILETA(TA)

  RUGUODANQINDEMUQIN,ZHANGFUQUSHI,HUOLIHUN,ZIJIDAIHAIZI,YUEXINKU,JIUYUEZHENGTIANSHULUOHAIZI:“WODOUSHIWEILENI。NIMAYITIANQIZAOTANHEI,NIKAN,ZHEBUDOUSHIWEILENIMA?”HENDUOMUQINDUIHAIZIBAOXINKU,WOZHEMENULI,ZHEMEXINKUDOUSHIWEILENI。

  6、BAJIAOYUHAIZIXIWANGJITUOZAIXUEXIAOHEJIAJIAOSHANG

  YIDANHAOXUEXIAOBUXINGLE,NIYEJIUMIELEXIWANG。HUOZHEJIAJIAOBUXINGZAIHUAN。ZHESHEJIDESHI“JIAOYUHAIZIDEGENBENDIANZAINA”DEWENTI。

  7、CHANGYIZIJIDEBIAOZHUNGEIHAIZIDONGMUBIAO

  NIYAORANGHAIZISHIXIANDELIXIANG,DAODISHITADELIXIANG,HUANSHINIDELIXIANG?SHITAXIANGXUEGANGQIN,HUANSHINIRENWEITAXIANGXUEGANGQIN?ZHEHUAYOUYANGEJIEXIAN。RENWEIHAIZIYOUHUIHUACAINENG,HUANSHIHAIZIZHENDEXIANGXUEHUIHUA?HAIZIYINGGAIHAOHAOXUEXI,SHITAXIANGHAOHAOXUEXI,HUANSHINIRENWEITAYINGGAIHAOHAOXUEXI?

  8、BAWUZHICIJIDANGCHENGJILIHAIZIDEZHONGYAOFANGFA

  HENDUOJIACHANG,YIKANDAOGEIHAIZI10YUANQIAN,HAIZIJIUHUOBENGLUANTIAODE,TINGTINGHUA,ZHEZHAOTINGHAOYONG。YUSHI,DANGCHENGBAISHIBUSHUANGDEKANJIABENSHILE。

  9、DUIHAIZIDEKUNHUOBUWENBUWEN,HUOBUGANXINGQU

  HAIZIDAOLE5、6SUI,JIUYOULEWUQIONGWUJINDEWENTI:“XIAOHAIZI,NIBUDONG,YIHOUNIJIUMINGBAILE。”“DARENDESHINIBUYAOWEN。”RUGUOSHIZHEYANG,NIJIUDENGYUBAHAIZIDEQIUZHIYUYIXIAZIGEIMAIDIAOLE。HOULAINIJIUWENTA:“NIZENMEBUHAOHAOXUENI?”QISHI,SHIZAIZHEGESHIHOU,FUMUQINSHOUHUILEHAIZI,FUMUHUANZAIBAOYUAN。

  10、DUIHAIZIDESHIQING,SHENMEDOUXIANGZHIDAO

  RUGUOSHIYIGENVHAI,JIUPATAZAOLIAN,PAZHEGEPANEIGE。HAIZISUOYOUDESHIDOUXIANGZHIDAO。WOSHINIBABA,WOSHINIMAMA,NISUOYOUDESHIJIUYINGGAIGAOSUWO。WOBUZHIDAOZHEGEGUANNIANCONGNALAI DE!SHIWOMENDEZUXIANGAOSUWOMENZHEYANG,HUANSHICONGNAXUELAIDE?DABUFENJIACHANGHUIZHEYANG:“NIGEIWOSHUOSHIHUA,NIBUSHUOSHIHUABUXING。”SHENMESHI“SHIHUA”?ZAIJIACHANGZHELI,HAIZIZIJIYOUMIMISHIBU YINGGAIDE。RENWEIWOSHINIMANIBA,JIUYINGGAIHEWOSHUO。JIEGUO,NIDEZHEZHONGQIANGPOJIUHUISHIHAIZIRENWEI,WOBUXIANGSHUODEBUHENISHUO,ZUIHOU,WOHENISAHUANG。SAHUANGSHINIBICHULAIDE。

  11、BUYUANYIGULIHAIZIHUOBUHUIGULIHAIZI

  ZHESHILIANGZHONG,90%DEJIACHANGSHIBUHUIGULI。BUZHIDAOSHENMESHIGULI。BUDONGQUEREN、BIAOYANG、GULI,NIZHIZHIDAOBAHAIZISHENGXIALAI,GONGTACHICHUANYONG。

  12、JINGCHANGCHIZEHAIZIDEQUEDIAN

  BAHAIZIDEQUEDIANDANGCHENGNICHIZEDEZHUYAODUIXIANG,YIDANHAIZIYOULEQUEDIAN,JIUZAITAIDUSHANG、XINGWEISHANGYOUMINGXIANDEBIAOXIAN,BINGCHUXIANYANYUCHIZE。ZHEZHONGZUOFAJIANGZHIJIESHANGHAIHAIZIDEZIZUNXIN。

  13、ZAIJIAOYUHAIZIFANGMIAN,FUQIYIJIANCHANGCHANGBUTONGYI

  ZHANGFUHEQIZIZAIJIAOYUHAIZIZHONG,YOUMINGXIANDEBUYIZHI。QIZIGAOSUHAIZIDUOCHITANGDUIYACHIBUHAO,ZHANGFUQUENONGLEYIDABAOTANGGUOZUOWEIDUIHAIZIDEJIANGSHANG。ZAIJIAOYUHAIZIZHONG,ZHEZHONGFENQICHANGCHANGCHUXIAN。

  14、ZAIHAIZIMIANQIANCHAOJIA

  ZHESHIZUIBUKEQUDEYIZHONGSHENGHUO。MEIYOUGUJIHAIZIDENEIXINTIYAN,ZAIHAIZIDENEIXIN,SHENGHUOZHONGDELIANGGEQINRENBUYINGGAISHIZHEYANGDE。FUMUDEZHEZHONGJIFENDEZUOFA,YEWEIHAIZIDEQINGXUZUOLE“BIAOLV”。

  15、MEIYOUMINGQUEDESHENGHUOMUBIAO

  ZHEJIANGZHIJIEYINGXIANGHAIZIDUISHENGHUODEGUANLI。YOULEMINGQUEDESHENGHUOMUBIAO,JIURONGYIYANGCHENGJIJIDESHENGHUOXINTAI、LIANGHAODEXINGWEIXIGUAN。

  16、NIDEQINGXU,GENZHUHAIZIDEFENSHUZOU

  HAIZIDEFENSHU,YIJINGCHENGLENIQINGXUDEWENDUBIAO、YINBAOQI。RUGUOHAIZIKAOLE50FEN,NIZHEJIUKUAIBAOZHALE。ZHEHAOBISHIMOUZAZHISHANGDENGGUOZHEYANGDEYIFUMANHUA:YIGE7、8SUIDEXIAONAN HAIGAOGAOXINGXINGDIBEIZHUSHUBAOHUILAILE。ZAIYIGEDIAOYUGANSHANGDIAOZHUZIJIDECHENGJIDAN。BABAZUOZAIBANGONGZHUOPANG,CHENGJIDANJIUDIAOZAITABAMIANQIAN。RUGUOZAIZHUOZISHANGFANGSHANGLIANGHESUXIAOJIUXINWAN,JIUGENGTIEQIELE。

  HAIZIDEFENSHUWEISHENMEDUININEIMEZHONGYAONI?WEISHENMEHUIZHEYANGNI?SHITADECUO,HUANSHINIDECUO?NIBASHENMEKANDEZHEMEZHONGYAO?SHIJISHANG,SHINIDUITADECHENGJIDANDEJIDUANGUANZHU,WUQINGDI MOSHALEHAIZIZHUIQIUZHISHIDEXINXIN。TAJUEDEXUEXIZHISHITAITONGKULE。ZHEMENANZUO,HOUMIANSUISHIYOUYIGE“LAOHU”ZAIZHUIWO。YIDANZUOCUO,YIBANGZIJIUXIALAILE。YIGERENZAIZHEZHONGJINGKONGDEZHUANGTAIXIA,TA MEIYOUXUEXIHAODEKENENGXING。ZHEGESHIJIESHANGTIANCAIBUSHIZHEMEPEIYANGCHULAIDE。XUEXIHAODERENMEIYOUYIGESHIFUMUCHENGTIANZAIHOUMIANKANZHU,NIDEFENSHUDOUYAOBAMADEXINZANGNONGHUAILE。7、8SUIDEHAIZICHENGDANZHU MUQINXINZANGBINGDEZHEMEDADEYIGEYALI,HUANNENGXUEHAOMA?CHENGDANZHENGGEJIATINGDEZHONGDAN,NENGBAHAIZIYAPAXIALE。

  17、RENWEIMANZULEHAIZIDEWUZHIXUQIU,HAIZIJIUYINGGAINULIXUEXI

  WUZHIXUQIUDEMANZUYUHAIZINULIXUEXIMEIYOUBIRANLIANXI。HAIZIDEXUEXISHIPINGZHUQINGGANDEQUDONG,FUZHUXINGWEI,DEDAOLEKUAILEDEQIANGHUA,CAIXINGCHENGYIZHONGLIANGXINGDEXIGUAN。

  18、RENWEIHAIZINENGTINGDONGNIJIANGDEDAOLI,QUEGUYIBUQUZUO

  RENWEIFUMURANGTAZUO,HAIZIBUQUZUO,ZHESHINIFANXINLI,SHIHAIZIGUYIDUIZHUGAN。NIYAOZHIDAO,YIGEHAIZIYOUNIFANXINLI,SHUOMINGTAHUANYOUJIU,HUANYOUXIWANG,ZHEGEBINGHUANNENGKAIDAO,NENG ZHI。NIFANXINLIDEBENZHISHIZAIJINXINGDOUZHENG。RUGUOHAIZIMEIYOUNIFANXINLI,NISHUOSHENMESHISHENME,NEIJIUMEIJIULE,“AIZHENG”WANQILE。NIYIJINGBAHAIZIWUQINGDINONGCHENGLE“HENGLUJINGER”。

  RUGUOHAIZICHANSHENGNIFANXINLI,HENIZHANDOU,TADEZIZUNHUANYOU。ZHISHIZIZUNBIANTAILE。TABUFENNIDUICUO,JIUHENIDUIKANG。WEIHUZIZUN,ZHEGERENHUANYOUJIU。NIXUYAODESHIGAOSUTA:“WO ZUNZHONGNI!”JIUKEYILE。RANHOU,TAJIUHUIFANGQIWUZHUANG。NIFANXINLIJIUSHIDUNPAI。NIBUDATALE,TAHUANNADUNPAIGANSHENME!YINWEINISHANGLETADEZIZUN,TAJIUBUTINGNISHUOSHENME,JIUHENIZHANDOU。SHUOMING ZHEHAIZIHUANKEYI。RUGUOBUNIFANLE,MAFANJIUDALE,HAIZIYIJINGMEIZIZUNLE。MEIPIMEILIAN,NIAIZENMESHUO,ZENMESHUO。SUIBIANNISHUOSHENMEDOUXING,YINYITAOYANGYITAO。NISHUOWOJIUSHUNZHUNISHUO,NIYIZOU WOJIUWAN,NIHUILAIWOZAILAI。NEIHAIZIJIUMEIXILE,JIBENDEMIAOMEIZAIZHU。

  19、BURENWEIZIJIDEXINGWEIDUIHAIZIYOUJUEDINGXINGDEYINGXIANG

  WOMENLIZHISHANGRENWEI,WOYEMEIRANGTAXUEHUAIYA,WOYEMEIRANGTASAHUANGYA?HAIZISHITONGGUOSHENMEXUEXIDE?

  CHENGNIANRENDEXUEXI,SHITONGGUOLIZHIDE、HUOZHEJIAOZHIXING,HUOZHEJIAOLIZHI,HUOZHEJIAODAOLI。ZHIXING、DAOLITONGGUODANAOFANYING,CONGLIJIEDAOZHANGWO,ZHESHICHENGRENSHIJIEDEXUEXIMOSHI。HAIZIZEBU SHIZHEYANGXUEXIDE。HAIZISHIWANQUANTONGGUOMOFANG,MOFANGXINGWEIHEGANJUE。GANJUESHIZIDONGCHUANDIDE。HAIZIDEYUYANXITONGHUANMEIYOUJIANLIQILAI,TAGENBENBUSHITONGGUOYUYAN,ERSHIZHIJIETONGGUOXINGWEI、GANJUE、SHENG YIN,ZHEXIELITIHUADEBADONGXIJILUXIALAIDE。

  WOMENTONGCHANGGAOSUHAIZI:

  “NIBUYAOSAHUANG!ZUOXIAOHAIYIDINGYAOCHENGSHI,BUYAOSAHUANG。”

  “DING…………”DIANHUALAILE。

  “NIBAZAIJIAMA?”

  “GAOSUTA,SHUOWOBUZAIJIA。”

  ZHEBIANSHUO:“BUXUSAHUANG,JUEDUIBUXU。”

  WOMENTONGCHANGGAOSUHAIZI:“BUXUSHUOBIERENHUAIHUA!”ZUOHAIZIZENMENENGSHUOBIERENHUAIHUANI?WANSHANG,YIQICHIFANDESHIHOU:“JINTIAN,NIKANWOMENDANWEILINGDAO,ZHENTAMAQUEDE!JIANSHUIGEITAPAIMAPI。TA JIUGEITAZHEGEJIHUI,JIUBUGEIWO。”GAOSUHAIZI:“ZHEGESHIJIEYAOYOUAIXIN。RENBIXUYAOYOUAIXIN。MEIYOUAIXINZENMENENGXINGNI?BAOBAOYAOYOUAIXIN。”YOUGAOSUNI:“RENHERENTAIXIANE LE。SHUISHUISHUIBEIPIANLE!BEIQIANGLE。QIANLIANGTIANCHANGCHUNYOUGEFANZUITUANHUO,BAOBENBAOSINEIMEDUO。”ZHEBIANYOUAIXIN,NEIBIANCHONGMANTONGKU。HAIZIDECHENGSHUDAOSHENMECHENGDUCAIZHIDAOYOUAIXINNI?HAIZIGANJUEBIXUNA QIDUNPAI,QUANSHENZHANDOU,ZHEMETONGKUDESHIJIE,ZHEMECHONGMANCHOUHENHEZHENGDOUDESHIJIE,YOUAIXIN,WOBUDENGYUGAOYANGFANGZAIROUBANSHANGRANGRENDUOMA?WOMENXIANGYIXIA,SHIBUSHINIBAZHEGEDONGXICHUANGEITADE?ZUIHOU NISHUO:“NIZENMEZHEMEMEIYOUAIXINNI?”

  SHIJISHANG,HAIZISHITONGGUOXINGWEIHEGANJUEXUEXIDE,GENBENBUSHITONGGUONIDEYUYAN,TATINGBUDONGNISHUODENEIXIEDAOLI。TASHITONGGUONIDEXINGWEIHENIDEGANJUE。

  20、RENWEIHAIZIDEXUEXICHENGJIYUZIJIDEWENHUASHUIPINGYOUBIRANLIANXI  RUGUONINIANSHUNIANDAOLECHUZHONG。NIDEHAIZIYAOSHIHENIDEWENHUASHUIPINGYOUBIRANLIANXIDEHUA,NIJIUSHIHAIZIDESHANGXIAN,HAIZIDEZUIGAOSHUIPINGYEJIUSHICHUZHONG。RUGUOYOUBIRANLIANXIDEHUA,WODEJIA ZUYINGSHIZHEYANGDE:WOMACHUZHONGBIYE,WOMENJIAZUIGAOYINGSHICHUZHONGBIYE。WOMENJIACHANGZONGSHUO:“NIKAN,HAIZIDEKECHENGWODOUJIAOBUHUI,DOUBUDONG。XIANZAIXIAOXUEKENANLE。CHUZHONGKECHENGTAINANLE,ZANYEXUEBU HUIYA!”QISHI,YEMEIRENSHUORANGNIXUEHUIYA,NIPINGSHAXUEYA?NEISHIHAIZIHEXUEXIAODESHIQING。WOMENDEJIACHANGRENWEI:XUEXIBUXINGJIUDEWOJIAO。SHUISHUORANGNIJIAONI?NIZHIYAOBATABIANCHENGYIGEYOUZERENXINHE ZHUIQIUSHANGJINDEREN,TAZIJIJIUHUIXUE。WODANGCHUJIUMEIZHIWANGWOBA、WOMAJIAOWOSHENME。MEIRENJIAO,DANBIXUGULIHAIZIZIJIXUE。HAIZIDEXUEXIHAOHUAIYUFUMUBENRENDEWENHUASHUIPING、WENHUAZHISHIDEXUELICHENG DUMEIYOUBIRANLIANXI。YUJIACHANGDEZHISHILIANGMEIYOULIANXI,YUQIANMEIYOULIANXI。DANSHIYUNIDEJIAOYUFANGFASHIZHIJIEXIANGLIANDE。

  BENWENXUANZIMOMODEBOKE,DIANJICHAKANYUANWEN。



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